Question 1083: If a
relative boldly and heedlessly commits sins, what is one's duty with respect to keeping
relations with him ?
A: If the mukallaf thinks that breaking
relations may make his relative refrain from sins, it will be obligatory on him to do so
as a case of enjoining to ma'ruf and forbidding from munkar; otherwise, it is not
permissible to break ties with blood relations.
Question 1084: Is it permissible to forego
enjoining to ma'ruf and forbidding from munkar for the fear of losing one's job, such as
in a case where the head of an educational institution, who deals with the university
youth, commits actions against the shar', or makes the environment prone to commission of
sins in that place ?
A: As a general rule, if the mukallaf
fears harm for himself in enjoining to ma'ruf and forbidding from munkar, it will not be
obligatory on him.
Question 1085: If ma'ruf is neglected and
munkar is common in some academic environments, and the conditions for enjoining to ma'ruf
and forbidding from munkar are existent, will one be relieved of the obligation to perform
this duty if he is a bachelor?
A: When their instances and conditions are
existent, enjoining to ma'ruf and forbidding from munkar are shar'i obligations as well as
social and human duties of all mukallafs The different states of the mukallaf, such as his
being married or not, play no role. The mukallaf is not relieved of his obligation simply
for being a bachelor.
Question 1086: If one comes across
evidence of sinful conduct, impropriety and insincerity of a person holding a powerful
position, but one fear his power and influence, is it permissible to neglect enjoining to
ma'ruf and forbidding from munkar in relation to him ? Or is it obligatory on one to call
him to ma'ruf and forbid him from munkar even when one is afraid of his harm ?
A: If there is a reasonable fear of harm,
it will not be obligatory to enjoin to ma'ruf and forbid from munkar, and you will be
relieved of the obligation for that reason. But one should not neglect reminding and
exhorting his brother in faith, neither should the duty of enjoining to ma'ruf and
forbidding from munkar be abandoned simply for the fear of the position of the forsaker of
ma'ruf and the perpetrator of munkar, or at the mere likelihood of some harm.
Question 1087: At time forbidding a sinner
creates in him negative feelings against Islam due to his ignorance of Islamic duties and
rules. On the other hand, if we leave him alone, it will prepare the grounds for others to
corrupt the environment and commit sins. What is the duty in such a situation?
A: Enjoining to ma'ruf and forbidding from
munkar with their conditions are considered a public religious duty for the sake of
safeguarding Islamic laws and social health. The mere notion that it might create negative
feelings against Islam in some individuals does not justify the negligence of such an
extremely crucial duty.
Question 1088: If those assigned by the
Islamic state to prevent corruption do not accomplish their duty, is it permissible for
people to take charge of this duty themselves?
A: Intervention at the individual level in
affairs which constitute the duty of security and law-enforcement authorities is not
permissible. But there is no problem in enjoining to ma'ruf and forbidding from munkar by
people when carried out with due observance of their limits and conditions.
Question 1089: Is the duty of individuals
with regard to enjoining to ma'ruf and forbidding from munkar to confine themselves only
to oral enjoining and forbidding ? If it is obligatory on them to confine themselves to
oral reminders, this will contradict what is stated in the risalahs, particularly the
Tahrir al-Wasilah. And if they are allowed when necessary to advance to the other stages,
will it be permissible for them at times of necessity to carry out all the graded stages
mentioned in the Tahrir al-Wasilah ?
A: Considering that under an Islamic state
the stages subsequent to oral enjoining to ma'ruf and forbidding from munkar may be
assigned to security and judicial authorities, particularly with respect to cases where
prevention of munkar entails the use of force and intervention in the assets of the
individual who is guilty of munkar, or taking punitive action [ta'zir] against him, or his
detention, and so on, it is obligatory on the mukallafs to confine themselves to oral
enjoining to ma'ruf and forbidding from munkar, and when the need arises for the use of
force, to refer the case to law-enforcement authorities. This does not contradict the
verdict of the late Imam [Khomeini] [q] in this regard. As for periods or places that are
without an Islamic state in power, it is obligatory on the mukallafs [when the conditions
are realized], when enjoining to ma'ruf and forbidding from munkar, to go through the
graded states, from one to the next, until its purpose is realized.
Question 1090: Some passenger bus drivers
play cassettes of ghina and music that come under haram, without paying any attention to
advice and exhortations to turn off their cassette players. Please explain the rule which
should be followed in such situations and for dealing with such persons. Is it permissible
to use force against them ?
A: If the conditions for forbidding from
munkar exist, you are to do no more than oral forbidding from munkar. In case this
forbidding is not effective, it is obligatory to avoid listening to unlawful music and
ghina, and nevertheless the sound reaches your ears, you are not liable to anything in
that regard.
Question 1091: I work in a hospitals in
the sacred profession of nursing. Occasionally, during part of my work I encounter some
patients who listen to cassettes of unlawful and degenerate music. I advice them to stop
it, and if it does not work on repeating twice, I take the cassette out of the player,
erase its content, then return it to its owner. Please explain if such conduct is
permissible?
A: There is no problem in erasing the
perverse contents to prevent the cassette's unlawful use, provided it is done with the
permission of the cassette's owner or a religious authority [hakim al-shar'].
Question 1092: The sound of music
cassettes of uncertain permissibility is heard from some houses and is at times so high
that it is troublesome for the faithful. What is one's duty in that regard ?
A: Interference inside people's houses is
not permissible, and forbidding from munkar depends on identification of the actual
instance and the conditions being available.
Question 1093: What is the rule of
enjoining and forbidding in respect of women with inadequate covering [hijab] ? What is
the rule when one fears that oral forbidding may cause sexual stimulation ?
A: Forbidding from munkar does not depend
on looking at a female stranger in a way that may be sinful, and it is obligatory on every
mukallaf to avoid haram, especially when carrying out the duty of forbidding from munkar.
Question 1094: What is the duty of a son
toward his parents or that of a wife toward her husband when they give no importance to
paying khums and zakat on their assets ? Are they allowed to use the assets whose khums or
zakat has not been paid, as they are mixed with haram, in view of the emphasis that has
been laid on its avoidance, as haram wealth contaminates the soul ?
A: They [the son and the wife ] should
enjoin to ma'ruf and forbid from munkar whenever they see the parents or the husband
neglecting ma'ruf or committing munkar, provided the conditions for carrying them out
exist. As for using their wealth, there is no problem in it, unless they are certain of
the presence of khums and zakat funds in the part of wealth they use, in which case they
should seek the permission of khums and zakat authorities concerning that amount.
Question 1095: How should a son behave
with his parents who do not care about their religious duties due to their lack of
complete faith in them ?
A: He should orally enjoin them to ma'ruf
and forbid them from munkar in a soft language, and with due observance of their respect
as parents.
Question 1096: My brother does not observe
shar'i and moral norms, and advice has not been effective so far. What is my duty when I
see such conduct on his behalf ?
A: It is obligatory on you to express
resentment towards such conduct which is against Islamic law, and to remind him in a
brotherly way which you deem effective and suitable. But do not break your ties with him,
because that is impermissible.
Question 1097: What kind of relations can
one have with persons who formerly used to commit such unlawful acts as drinking ?
A: The criterion is the present behavior
of people. So if they have repented for what they used to do, they should be treated
presently like other believers. As for someone who commits haram at present, it is
obligatory to deter him from it through forbidding from munkar, and if he will not stop
committing haram unless one avoids his company, it will be obligatory to avoid his company
and break with him.
Question 1098: A continuous assault is
going on against Islamic morals by the Western culture, and some non-Islamic customs are
being propagated. For example, some men hang golden crosses in their necks, or some women
wear clothes with garish colors, and, occasionally, some men and women wear bracelets,
smoked glasses, and special watches which attract attention and are generally considered
improper. Taking into consideration that some of these people insist on such actions even
after enjoining them to ma'ruf and forbidding them from munkar, please explain how to
treat such individuals ?
A: Wearing gold or hanging it in the neck
is absolutely unlawful for men. It is not permissible to wear clothes whose tailoring
style, colour, etc. is considered imitation of the invading culture of non-Muslims, and it
is not permissible also to wear bracelets and glasses in a way that is regarded as
imitation of the invading culture of enemies of Islam and Muslims. The duty of others
towards such phenomena is to do oral forbidding from munkar.
Question 1099: Sometimes we see that a
faculty student or employee who commits munkar does not stop it even after repeated advice
and guidance, but on the contrary he remains insistent on committing his wrongdoing which
vitiates the faculty's atmosphere. What is your opinion on taking such effective punitive
administrative measures as entering it into his personal record ?
A: There is no problem in doing it while
observing the faculty's internal rules. The dear youth should take the issue of enjoining
to ma'ruf and forbidding from munkar seriously, learn its conditions and shar'i rules
carefully, publicize this principle, and employ moral and effective methods to encourage
the practice of ma'ruf and prevent the occurrence of munkar. They should avoid using this
principle for their personal ends, and know that it is the best and most effective way of
spreading good and preventing evil. May God grant you success in carrying out what pleases
Him.
Question 1100: Is it permissible not to
respond to the greeting of someone who commits munkar as way of stopping and discouraging
him ?
A: It is permissible to refrain from
responding to someone's greeting with the intention of forbidding from munkar if such
action is normally interpreted as prevention and discouraging of munkar.
Question 1101: What is the duty of the
authorities if it is proved definitely that some of their employees are negligent of
prayers, and exhortation and guidance do not affect their conduct ?
A: Nevertheless it is obligatory not to
ignore the effectiveness of enjoining to ma'ruf and forbidding from munkar if it is
performed continuously with due observance of its conditions. If it reaches a point that
the authorities have no hope that enjoining to ma'ruf is effective on such individuals,
and regulations permit depriving them of employment benefits, it will obligatory to take
such measures against them, while reminding them that the measure has been taken against
them because of their negligence in carrying out this divine obligation.
Question 1102: My sister is married to a
man who does not say prayers. Since he is with us all the time, I have to associate with
him, talk to him, and even at times help him in some work on his request. My question is,
am I permitted by Islamic law to associate with and talk to him, and help him in some work
? What is my duty towards him?
A: Nothing is obligatory on you except to
enjoin to ma'ruf and forbid from munkar in a continuous manner, whenever its conditions
are existent. If associating with him and assisting him do not encourage him in his
negligence of prayers, there is no problem in it.
Question 1103: Is it permissible for
high-ranking Islamic scholars to frequent and associate with tyrants and tyrannical rulers
if it leads to a decrease in their tyranny ?
A: If it is proved for the scholar in such
cases that his links with the tyrant lead to prevention of tyranny and are effective in
stopping him from munkar, or the scholar considers an important issue which has to be
taken care of and followed up, there will be no problem in it.
Question 1104: I got married several years
ago. While I pay great attention to religious affairs and shar'i matters and follow the
late Imam [Khomeini] {q}, my wife, unfortunately, does not care much about religious
matters. Sometimes, after a verbal argument, she says prayers once in a while, and this is
what bothers me very much. What is my duty in such a situation ?
A: Your duty is to prepare the grounds for
her reform by every possible means, and to avoid any kind of violence which might indicate
bad temper and disharmony. Keep in mind that attending religious ceremonies and
associating with religious families has a great effect on reforming persons.
Question 1105: If a Muslim man comes to
know from circumstantial evidence that his wife, though being a mother of several
children, secretly commits acts against chastity, though he does not have any shar'i
evidence to prove it [such as a witness who is prepared to testify ], how can he deal with
this woman in accordance with Islamic law, considering that the children will grow up with
such a woman ? How should one deal with a person, or persons, who commit such obscene
deeds contrary to the divine laws, if he becomes aware of them without possessing any
evidence which can be presented in a shar'i court ?
A: It is obligatory to avoid suspicion and
refrain from taking resort in conjectures. If it is ascertained that a shar'i haram has
been committed, it is obligatory to forbid her by reminding, exhorting, and forbidding
from munkar. If forbidding from munkar is not effective, one may refer to competent
judicial authorities if there is any evidence.
Question 1106: Is it permissible for a
girl to guide a young man and help him with his studies etc. while observing Islamic
norms?
A: Under the assumption in the question,
there is no problem in it. However, it is better to avoid satanic temptations, and
obligatory to observe the related shar'i rules, as avoiding being alone with a stranger.
Question 1107: What is the duty of
employees in official departments and institutions when they occasionally observe certain
organizational and religious misconduct's perpetrated by their high-ranking managers? Will
the obligation be called off if the individual fears that his forbiddance from evil may
cause high-ranking authority or authorities to harm him ?
A: If all conditions of enjoining to good
and forbidding from evil are satisfied they will be obligated to implement them, otherwise
they will have no obligation in this respect. So is the case when they fear some harm for
themselves as a result of enjoining to good and forbidding from evil-and therefore, there
will be no obligation. This rule remains in force as long as the country is not governed
by an Islamic state. When there is an Islamic state that takes up the fulfillment of these
divine duties, the obligation of those who are incapable [ajiz] of enjoining to good and
forbidding from evil will be to inform official authorities about the case and follow it
up until sinister and corrupting roots are eradicated.
Question 1108: If there is continuing
misappropriation of public funds in a department, and there is someone who thinks that he
can curtail this phenomena if he take charge of the office, but it is impossible for him
to acquire that post without bribing one of the specialists, is it permissible to give
bribe in order to prevent misappropriation of public funds, a measure which amounts to
averting a major evil with amounts to averting a major evil with a minor one?
A: The duty of those who become aware of
violations of Islamic law is to forbid from munkar while observing the related shar'i
conditions and norms, and it is not permissible to resort to bribery and illegal methods
in order to obtain an office, though it should be for the purpose of preventing
corruption. Of course, if that is assumed to occur in a country ruled by an Islamic state,
the people's duty does not end simply by personal inability to enjoin to ma'ruf and forbid
from munkar, rather they must bring the matter to the attention of the related authorities
and follow it up.
Question 1109: Is munkar something
relative, so that it should be possible to compare the university environment with the
worst of environments, and make it an excuse for neglect of forbidding from munkar with
respect to some munkars and for failing to prevent them by maintaining them not to be
haram and munkar at all ?
A: A munkar as such is not something
relative, but at the same time some munkars may be considered more haram compared to
others. In any case, forbidding from munkar is regarded a shar'i obligation whenever its
conditions exist, and he must not neglect it. There is no difference between various
munkars in this respect, or between university environments and other settings.
Question 1110: What rule applies to
alcoholic drinks found with some occasional foreign specialists in some institutions of
the Islamic country and who drink them at home or in places assigned for their stay ? What
rule applies to their preparation and consumption of pork, as well as their conduct
contrary to chastity and the people's ruling values ? What is the duty of factory managers
and those who have relations with them ? What position is to be taken if the factory
managers and related provincial authorities do not take any measures in these cases after
being informed ?
A: It is obligatory for related
authorities to ask them not to openly commit such acts as drinking and eating unlawful
meats and to refrain from doing them in public. As for matters which are against public
chastity, it is not proper to allow them to commit them. In any case, any measure
regarding them in this context must be taken only through competent authorities.
Question 1111: Some brothers go to places
where improperly veiled women gather at times in order to enjoin to ma'ruf and forbid from
munkar, and to advise and exhort them. Are they allowed to look at those women,
considering that they go there to enjoin to ma'ruf ?
A: There is no problem in a first
unintentional look, but an intentional look at parts other than the face and hands is not
permissible, even for the purpose of enjoining to ma'ruf.
Question 1112: What is the duty of a
devout youth in mixed universities in respect of the improprieties which are observed in
some of these universities ?
A: It is obligatory for them, while
guarding themselves against being polluted, to enjoin to ma'ruf and forbid from munkar if
its conditions are available to them and they have the ability to carry it out.